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Sex and the Seawolf: Briefing on the Dominatrix

Illustration by Vicente Capala
Illustration by Vicente Capala

Passion sears all over your body. You have been submissive for the past few days — maybe even months. You have it easy to just be whisked away with adrenaline so high and his masculine testosterone just beating at your bosom. You then realize you want to switch the dominance for maybe one night, or maybe a few weekends. Those thoughts are normal, and it may be worth a try.

If that sounds like you, open up your mind to the highest title of female sexual dominance: the dominatrix. It’s not necessary to transform yourself into a beauty of bondage. Just start out by exploring a few ways to make things more interesting for you and your partner.

A dominatrix is a woman commandeering sexual interaction. In the film “Mr. & Mrs. Smith,” Angelina Jolie’s character disguises herself as a dominatrix.

A dominatrix’s sexual acts can even go to extremes, such as bondage and sadomasochism. Bondage is when sexual appeal is achieved through tying an individual in restraint, and sadomasochism is when sexual appeal is achieved through pain or humiliation. In either case, when a dominatrix is present, she will most likely be proctoring the activity.

How can you tap into a dominatrix role? First, give yourself a name. The name or title you grant yourself automatically places you higher above the ranks. This is only possible if you actually choose a name that strikes fear within the heart of your partner. Names of higher powers like goddesses and queens will do.

Second, figure out the dark secrets of your partner’s sexual fetish. To find out you can either spy on his daily routine and see if he has revealing bro talk with his friends or just ask him. I would go with A, its more interesting. Finally, get yourself an outfit. This outfit must grant you the automatic courage of stepping into the dominant role. You’ll be surprised in the difference of how you’ll feel after slipping into a sexy cat suit.

The dominatrix stands as a symbol of sexual power and authority. By tapping into your inner dominatrix, you will be able to finally show your partner how to please you the way you want to be pleased.

Be careful, though. Going into full dominatrix mode might scare your partner away. Or things could be better — he or she might crawl back whimpering for more.

Written by Vicente Capala

My name is Vicente Capala. I am now a sophomore here at UAA under the Associate of the Arts degree. I am the multimedia editor at the Northern Light in charge of videos and slideshows for various stories and events. I love to take photos and am hoping to move to Canada or New York one day to study film!